I think that we often struggle — during the  all-too-frantic holiday season — to find ways to show our love and appreciation to friends and family. We shop for meaningful gifts, host parties, bake pies and cookies.

But it's the "personalized attention" that somehow goes missing.

That's what Thanksgiving is for. It's time to slow down and reflect on the blessings in our lives.

This year, I'm vowing to use the spirit of Thanksgiving as inspiration to do some much-needed thank-you card writing — to show my gratitude for those friends and family members who enrich my life. 

Not for anything specific. Just a few notes to say, "Thank you for being who you are — and for all that you've brought to my life."

I'm thinking that a goal of five notes is realistic. Maybe ten. But truly, what better time of the year to send a thank-you note than on Thanksgiving?